Comments on: I am really screaming in my head. http://dawnmasuoka.com/2009/01/i-am-really-screaming-in-my-head/ Mon, 07 May 2012 17:30:36 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Dawn Masuoka http://dawnmasuoka.com/2009/01/i-am-really-screaming-in-my-head/comment-page-1/#comment-1098 Dawn Masuoka Mon, 26 Jan 2009 21:26:21 +0000 http://dawnmasuoka.com/?p=2377#comment-1098 :-) :-)

]]> By: Ron Burkey http://dawnmasuoka.com/2009/01/i-am-really-screaming-in-my-head/comment-page-1/#comment-1097 Ron Burkey Mon, 26 Jan 2009 21:24:04 +0000 http://dawnmasuoka.com/?p=2377#comment-1097 I know exactly what you mean, and couldn't even add anything to it. But a solution I have not. I know exactly what you mean, and couldn’t even add anything to it. But a solution I have not.

]]> By: Dawn Masuoka http://dawnmasuoka.com/2009/01/i-am-really-screaming-in-my-head/comment-page-1/#comment-1096 Dawn Masuoka Mon, 26 Jan 2009 21:17:27 +0000 http://dawnmasuoka.com/?p=2377#comment-1096 I don't really have any same sex friends. None local anyway or anyone I talk to on a normal basis; or heartfelt. It's the opposite that tends to get murky. You don't want to get 'too close' if you're just friends- so the light hearted friendships are nice, but sometimes I just want to turn to someone in evening and laugh... smile... or say, "Oh my God did you you see that? ...Now go away." (jk to the go away part of the want... kind of) But I guess if a person is the right fit, you don't want them to go away. You just want more. I don’t really have any same sex friends. None local anyway or anyone I talk to on a normal basis; or heartfelt. It’s the opposite that tends to get murky. You don’t want to get ‘too close’ if you’re just friends- so the light hearted friendships are nice, but sometimes I just want to turn to someone in evening and laugh… smile… or say, “Oh my God did you you see that? …Now go away.” (jk to the go away part of the want… kind of) But I guess if a person is the right fit, you don’t want them to go away. You just want more.

]]> By: Ron Burkey http://dawnmasuoka.com/2009/01/i-am-really-screaming-in-my-head/comment-page-1/#comment-1095 Ron Burkey Mon, 26 Jan 2009 21:06:46 +0000 http://dawnmasuoka.com/?p=2377#comment-1095 The older I get the more I feel that way. (Your 2nd paragraph.) Of course, you can do that with your really close friends of the same sex. But it really falls apart as a principle when you want to share with someone of the opposite sex since if you drive them away they tend to stay away. The older I get the more I feel that way. (Your 2nd paragraph.) Of course, you can do that with your really close friends of the same sex. But it really falls apart as a principle when you want to share with someone of the opposite sex since if you drive them away they tend to stay away.

]]> By: Dawn Masuoka http://dawnmasuoka.com/2009/01/i-am-really-screaming-in-my-head/comment-page-1/#comment-1094 Dawn Masuoka Mon, 26 Jan 2009 20:42:49 +0000 http://dawnmasuoka.com/?p=2377#comment-1094 :-) Which reminds me of my recent favorite quotes: Since it is seldom clear whether intellectual activity denotes a superior mode of being or a vital deficiency, opinion swings between considering intellect a privilege and seeing it as a handicap. Jacques Barzun I'm such a conflicting animal. I love my privacy and solitude, but sometimes I want to share it with someone... and then make them go away. Stupid human funk. :-) Which reminds me of my recent favorite quotes: Since it is seldom clear whether intellectual activity denotes a superior mode of being or a vital deficiency, opinion swings between considering intellect a privilege and seeing it as a handicap. Jacques Barzun

I’m such a conflicting animal. I love my privacy and solitude, but sometimes I want to share it with someone… and then make them go away.

Stupid human funk.

]]> By: Ron Burkey http://dawnmasuoka.com/2009/01/i-am-really-screaming-in-my-head/comment-page-1/#comment-1093 Ron Burkey Mon, 26 Jan 2009 20:26:09 +0000 http://dawnmasuoka.com/?p=2377#comment-1093 I have no idea if you photograph better than you look or not. But to say you photograph 'well' is an outrageous understatement. To put it bluntly, you are truly lovely. And that's my last word on the subject. Anyway, you're far from hopeless. You're just suffering from normal human funk. I suffer from it myself from time to time, and I don't have half the real problems you do. I am coming to the conclusion that the human animal may just be too intelligent in most cases to really be happy on a consistent basis. I have no idea if you photograph better than you look or not. But to say you photograph ‘well’ is an outrageous understatement. To put it bluntly, you are truly lovely. And that’s my last word on the subject.

Anyway, you’re far from hopeless. You’re just suffering from normal human funk. I suffer from it myself from time to time, and I don’t have half the real problems you do. I am coming to the conclusion that the human animal may just be too intelligent in most cases to really be happy on a consistent basis.

]]> By: Dawn Masuoka http://dawnmasuoka.com/2009/01/i-am-really-screaming-in-my-head/comment-page-1/#comment-1092 Dawn Masuoka Mon, 26 Jan 2009 19:50:51 +0000 http://dawnmasuoka.com/?p=2377#comment-1092 Thank you :) it's hard to get a good perspective of self. Do I photograph better than I look? Life isn't about looks... am I just hopeless? If I seek answers any where else, I'll have to add 'neurotic' onto my flaw list. <-which I might be. I do this periodically and I'd like to think it's natural human nature. I hate feeling insecure about myself or lacking. I need to snap out of it and I will... but OMG sometimes it feels ridiculous- I can't be THAT bad!!!!!!!!!!!!! Can I? Thank you :) it’s hard to get a good perspective of self. Do I photograph better than I look? Life isn’t about looks… am I just hopeless?
If I seek answers any where else, I’ll have to add ‘neurotic’ onto my flaw list. <-which I might be.

I do this periodically and I’d like to think it’s natural human nature. I hate feeling insecure about myself or lacking. I need to snap out of it and I will… but OMG sometimes it feels ridiculous- I can’t be THAT bad!!!!!!!!!!!!! Can I?

]]> By: Ron Burkey http://dawnmasuoka.com/2009/01/i-am-really-screaming-in-my-head/comment-page-1/#comment-1091 Ron Burkey Mon, 26 Jan 2009 13:46:53 +0000 http://dawnmasuoka.com/?p=2377#comment-1091 Regarding your point #1: That's crazy talk. Or else the pictures you post are of someone other than you. If so, you can tell whoever is in those pictures that she has perhaps the most beautiful face I have ever seen. So here are points that stick out like a sore thumb to someone who is halfway across the country, hasn't met you in person, and simply takes your blog at face value: a. You are extremely attractive in appearance. b. You are very funny. c. You are quite clever. Whatever explanation you care to seek regarding a dating lack has to be elsewhere. Regarding your point #1: That’s crazy talk. Or else the pictures you post are of someone other than you. If so, you can tell whoever is in those pictures that she has perhaps the most beautiful face I have ever seen. So here are points that stick out like a sore thumb to someone who is halfway across the country, hasn’t met you in person, and simply takes your blog at face value:

a. You are extremely attractive in appearance.
b. You are very funny.
c. You are quite clever.

Whatever explanation you care to seek regarding a dating lack has to be elsewhere.

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